2014, day after day

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The same poet but not the same poem. I translate all the Diwan.


Now I have a dilemma : After 10 days of furious silenced miff and sulk, the offender called. I did not answer (I wanted ti listen that sweet music of repentant vocal message ). But no, silence, no word, then ring off.

I wonder if let the people boiling and macerating more days (weeks) ?


YEAH (at least until I have a REAL message

I wonder often how men feel & think when they face a wrangle. Obviously we are not from the same planet

[Anthea]

If someone ever phones me and does not even bother to leave a message - I give them two chances - third time they will find their number blocked - I have no time for such puerile behaviour

If there is ever an argument between a man and woman - good manners dictate that the man apologise

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f someone ever phones me and does not even bother to leave a message - I give them two chances - third time they will find their number blocked - I have no time for such puerile behaviour

Don't you know that the bravest men could be terrified when they face a GRANDE SCÈNE DU II ?

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If there is ever an argument between a man and woman - good manners dictate that the man apologise

Exactly like that :

MRS. ALLONBY. He should persistently compromise us in public, and treat us with absolute respect when we are alone. And yet he should be always ready to have a perfectly terrible scene, whenever we want one, and to become miserable, absolutely miserable, at a moment's notice, and to overwhelm us with just reproaches in less than twenty minutes, and to be positively violent at the end of half an hour, and to leave us for ever at a quarter to eight, when we have to go and dress for dinner. And when, after that, one has seen him for really the last time, and he has refused to take back the little things he has given one, and promised never to communicate with one again, or to write one any foolish letters, he should be perfectly broken-hearted, and telegraph to one all day long, and send one little notes every half-hour by a private hansom, and dine quite alone at the club, so that every one should know how unhappy he was. And after a whole dreadful week, during which one has gone about everywhere with one's husband, just to show how absolutely lonely one was, he may be given a third last parting, in the evening, and then, if his conduct has been quite irreproachable, and one has behaved really badly to him, he should be allowed to admit that he has been entirely in the wrong, and when he has admitted that, it becomes a woman's duty to forgive, and one can do it all over again from the beginning, with variations.

Oscar Wilde, A Woman of No Importance, II, 1.

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My I Ching Day :

Dragons struggle in the wild. Their blood is black and yellow.
Not accepting fate means one brings about a life full of difficulties. One does not only fight what happens, but more than anything else one fights one's own soul. Accept life the way it is and cherish it, then any life will be a good life. Make clear choices: do - with joy, or choose not to do - with joy.

= > 23. Lay bare what is in or behind things. It is dangerous when on the outside it seems all quiet and fine, and one does not know the inside. And when things do not work the way they should, then find out if there is something rotten behind the scene. And also: the outside of things decays some day, but if there is a strong and true inside, this will survive and find a new form. The ripe fruit of the top line is not eaten, it will rot away. If there is a noble inside - the seeds - it is an improvement or progress. If there is no good inside - the small man, no seeds - it falls apart and nothing remains.

[Anthea]

My I Ching Day :

Dragons struggle in the wild. Their blood is black and yellow.
Not accepting fate means one brings about a life full of difficulties. One does not only fight what happens, but more than anything else one fights one's own soul. Accept life the way it is and cherish it, then any life will be a good life. Make clear choices: do - with joy, or choose not to do - with joy.

= > 23. Lay bare what is in or behind things. It is dangerous when on the outside it seems all quiet and fine, and one does not know the inside. And when things do not work the way they should, then find out if there is something rotten behind the scene. And also: the outside of things decays some day, but if there is a strong and true inside, this will survive and find a new form. The ripe fruit of the top line is not eaten, it will rot away. If there is a noble inside - the seeds - it is an improvement or progress. If there is no good inside - the small man, no seeds - it falls apart and nothing remains.

Looks like a day for getting to the heart of matters and making tough decisions - but there again I could be totally wrong - not many dragons in the English countryside

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I am one of the dragons today. The other is… already burnt.

[Anthea]

I am one of the dragons today. The other is… already burnt.

Does that mean a certain someone foolishly failed to apologise

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Well I did not let it to do because I did not answer to the phone and he did not want to talk to the answering machine.

So saturday : 0 : 0.

Sunday, sent an email with a 'leave me alone' in the title and of which the general content was : I need SPACE and BREATHE.

And now the hardest part is front of me : hold firm in my peaceful meditative retreat until the road could open again.

[Anthea]

If - as you say - you need space to breath perhaps it is time for you to travel a different road

Was he the jealous type? Just recapping and noticed that I referred to him in a past tense

Did he do something utterly unforgivable such as forget a birthday (you had one not so long ago so cannot be that) - forget an anniversary - fail to do something - missed a date with you

Did he shout at you

Did he do something worse than that - did he swear

I know he did not hit you because he is still alive

Was he unfaithful - cannot be that - I just checked on the news and nothing about a French woman removing a man's wedding tackle with a sharp knife

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If - as you say - you need space to breath perhaps it is time for you to travel a different road

I am not in the mood to go anywhere. Just stop to think and feel, as a stone.

Was he the jealous type? Just recapping and noticed that I referred to him in a past tense

Jealous ? lol a bit, but not in the insufferable way.

Did he do something utterly unforgivable such as forget a birthday (you had one not so long ago so cannot be that) - forget an anniversary - fail to do something - missed a date with you

Something like that, but day after day.

Did he shout at you

Lol, NEVER. In general I am the one who roar.

Did he do something worse than that - did he swear

I think he never did it in all his life !

I know he did not hit you because he is still alive

Lol, no, he is a sort of Gandhi.

Was he unfaithful - cannot be that - I just checked on the news and nothing about a French woman removing a man's wedding tackle with a sharp knife

Lol, no. Quite a saint.

[Anthea]

I know what he did - he committed the WORST crime a man can ever commit

I took you for granted

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Yeah, exactly.

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Last week before games abstinence.

[Anthea]

The worst thing a man can ever ever ever do is to take a woman for granted