what do people think of mixed race relationships/marrages

[Kubilay]

thanx love really needed ur insight on this disturbing matter unfortunately i am too far gone to consider anything but having this child i do suspect there may be underlying issues here maybe im just paraniod i dont know if things were other way round id be doing all i could to make things work out i just feel it was ok for fun now serious hes running a mile x

Im glad you not want abortion and will have baby.

[kurdimemin_diako]

sorry for these two great brave Kurds who lost their lives - i am sure their sacrifice will not be in vain and soon we will see our nishtiman free and independent.
sometimes i wonder who is worse - turks or persians...

I think mixed marriage should not be bad thing anywhere!
Sorry I asked and about they were killed.

thank u my dear friends

[helen26]

thanku to all who reply but unfortunately he has taken familys orders and finnished with me today so all ihave done and tried to do was in vain for nothing which upsets me but i still have my daughter and the baby on the way i will focus on them i do understand hes anxious scared angry and sad also (for family back home) but i cant force this apon him ill step back for bit remind him what hes missing in a cple mths and just hope he comes round thats all i can think of doing if not then only he has to live with what hes doing and he will meet his maker i forgive him but what i tell his son or daughter when older "im sorry love but your father was a coward" i dont want that i want them to know him i just dont see whats so wrong with our relationship all because im white and catholic its crazy ! thing is id become muslim for him id cover frm head to toe id do whatever would make him smile and be happy and his family happy also i just cant imagine being without him maybe im nieve and sellfish towards his families issues and beliefs which i really dont want to do. Im also sorry for the 2 kurdish braves who lost their lives they will be remembered im sure !r.i.p.

[Kulka]

now you believe me, Helen? i am sorry for you, but its like that. and whatever he did, whatever he will do - i only ask you - dont talk any bad words about him specially to his kid. Coz not only him - you both made mistakes and kid has nothing to do with that.
try to find european boy who will be with you, will love you and your kids - good luck from me, take care.

[Kubilay]

thanku to all who reply but unfortunately he has taken familys orders and finnished with me today so all ihave done and tried to do was in vain for nothing which upsets me but i still have my daughter and the baby on the way i will focus on them i do understand hes anxious scared angry and sad also (for family back home) but i cant force this apon him ill step back for bit remind him what hes missing in a cple mths and just hope he comes round thats all i can think of doing if not then only he has to live with what hes doing and he will meet his maker i forgive him but what i tell his son or daughter when older "im sorry love but your father was a coward" i dont want that i want them to know him i just dont see whats so wrong with our relationship all because im white and catholic its crazy ! thing is id become muslim for him id cover frm head to toe id do whatever would make him smile and be happy and his family happy also i just cant imagine being without him maybe im nieve and sellfish towards his families issues and beliefs which i really dont want to do. Im also sorry for the 2 kurdish braves who lost their lives they will be remembered im sure !r.i.p.

I understand why he take family orders but I not agree. I think to him family is most important. It good to forgive him but I also think his family is too conservative and nationalist. Have you tell him you will become Muslim for him and baby?
One thing I want to say is don't think all kurds are like him or his family.

[helen26]

thanku for kind words i had told him yes but it made no difirence with family i wont everspeak ill of him to our child i couldnt do that i still love him and in time will forgive him and his family i just hope and pray he will come to his senses soon and our child can at least have a father even if he cant be with me! i want to reasure everyone i know manykurdish people who are in no way the same i have many kurdish friends !

[0000]

Well... in Iran.

In Kermashan and other cities.

Persians, Azaris, Kurds, etc... mix all the time... allllllllll the time. No one says anything bad ever, they dont even say it's mixed marriage if it's Persian/Kurdish, when it's Azari/Kurdish there is more problems though.. don't know why.

[Kulka]

Kermashan is beutiful kurdish city in Rojehalati Kurdistan (not in Iran). Its important to remember this for keeping kurdish identity.

[0000]

Kermashan is beutiful kurdish city in Rojehalati Kurdistan (not in Iran). Its important to remember this for keeping kurdish identity.

Of course brother! But Kurdistan is part of Iranzamin, we should both be proud of our greater Iranian race, and as well to be Kurdish brother

[Kulka]

i am proud to be your SISTER, kaka. but i cant agree to be proud of anything connected to Iran (the same to Turkya, Iraq and Syria), coz i dont accept any country and nation which occupies Kurdish land and kills kurdish people. Kurdistan is Kurdistan - not a part of any occupiers country. thats my point of view.

[0000]

i am proud to be your SISTER, kaka. but i cant agree to be proud of anything connected to Iran (the same to Turkya, Iraq and Syria), coz i dont accept any country and nation which occupies Kurdish land and kills kurdish people. Kurdistan is Kurdistan - not a part of any occupiers country. thats my point of view.

The government is one thing, the people are another thing. We Kurds are an Iranian ethnic group, our genetics is close to them, and we are brothers with the Iranians, I'm proud to be Iranian in the same way a Persian, Azari, Tajik, Pasthun, and so forth are brother... nothing wrong with this brother!! Iran is not like Turkey, Iraq, and Syria at all... maybe the government is oppressive, but the people are your blood brothers and Iranians love Kurds, even Azaris love Kurds. Dont forget Kurdistan is part of Iranzamin

[Kulka]

one more time i repeat - Kiurdistan is Kurdistan, not a "part" of anything. if Iranianias love Kurds so much, who then is killing kurdish journalists and other people? you going to tell me - "iranian government killing". but what is this government? machines, robots? iranian goverment are iranian people, who you are so proud of. and i wish you will never see your iraninan "brothers" killing any of your friends or family.
and go family of Kaveh Hijazi, shadian Mohammadi, Nasser Nilofar, Heyday Abdullahzadeh,Kamal Esfram, Hassan Ahmedi... and tell them iranians are our brothers - and these are only few names out of many.
so once again - sorry, but i dont make brotherhood with murderers and criminals, who occupied Kurdistan.

[0000]

one more time i repeat - Kiurdistan is Kurdistan, not a "part" of anything. if Iranianias love Kurds so much, who then is killing kurdish journalists and other people? you going to tell me - "iranian government killing". but what is this government? machines, robots? iranian goverment are iranian people, who you are so proud of. and i wish you will never see your iraninan "brothers" killing any of your friends or family.
and go family of Kaveh Hijazi, shadian Mohammadi, Nasser Nilofar, Heyday Abdullahzadeh,Kamal Esfram, Hassan Ahmedi... and tell them iranians are our brothers - and these are only few names out of many.
so once again - sorry, but i dont make brotherhood with murderers and criminals, who occupied Kurdistan.

Sorry man, but you would never understand.

Only Iranian Kurds understand this stuff. You find an Iranian Kurd who doesn't consider himself brothers with Iranians, and I tell you he is a liar.

[Kulka]

i am woman rather than man - but doesnt matter. i am not going to waste my time to fight with you - if you wish go to iraninas and they will make you happy. good luck.

[0000]

i am woman rather than man - but doesnt matter. i am not going to waste my time to fight with you - if you wish go to iraninas and they will make you happy. good luck.

1. We speak an Indo-Iranian language, we're an IRANIAN ETHNIC GROUP.
2. Our genetics are extremely similar to Iranians.


Iranians and Kurds are brothers, don't insult my Iranian brothers, I am proud as hell to be an IRANIAN Kurd, and if you talk to any Iranian Kurd they will say the same.

I really hope in the future Iranzamin is re-united.