Need help! Romantic matter/ Very rude brother.

[Anthea]

I just got some books about kurmanci, and I will see if I can find some kurdish women. I love kebab, but my kebab shop is run by turks:-(

Yeah, it's interesting to see how it all turns out. Thanks for your thoughts:-)

21 Mach is Kurdish New Year - Kurds celebrate this all over the world

I know it is a long time from now but it is something to think about attending

Hope you do manage to find some Kurdish ladies to befriend they are really lovely and friendly - and happy to tell you all about Kurdish men

Also if you have Kurdish female friends the men will treat you with a great deal more respect

PLEASE let us know how you get on

[Karped]

Hi Guys,

I just want to give an update as some requested:

It was all going reallly well, and we talked several times a day, but then three weeks ago, he again said the magic words: Send me money.

He wanted 500$ for a computer, and when I said no, he stopped speaking to me. And he was very up front about why he stopped speaking to me; " No money, no speak " he said.

Now I know it's a bad sign if a man ( or his brother ) ask for money - and if he asks once he will probably ask again:-)

He also turned out to be 23/24 years old and not almost 30 like he said.

I hope all of you are doing well, and thanks for all your help.

[Piling]

It is not a question of being Kurd or not. I guess that it has the same message in all cultures in the world. He is acting like a gigolo or a whore.

[Londoner]

Hi Guys,

I just want to give an update as some requested:

It was all going reallly well, and we talked several times a day, but then three weeks ago, he again said the magic words: Send me money.

He wanted 500$ for a computer, and when I said no, he stopped speaking to me. And he was very up front about why he stopped speaking to me; " No money, no speak " he said.

Now I know it's a bad sign if a man ( or his brother ) ask for money - and if he asks once he will probably ask again:-)

He also turned out to be 23/24 years old and not almost 30 like he said.

I hope all of you are doing well, and thanks for all your help.

Tell him ok, you will send him $500.00 to get his computer but you can only deposit the money into his credit/debit card account. Ask him to send you full details of his credit/debit cards including the four pin number.

[Anthea]

Hi Karped

I am sorry it took you so long to find out what that man was really like

Some men behave as rats whatever their background or culture

It is very difficult to read someone from a different culture - one never knows what to expect or what is considered normal behaviour within the other person's culture

There are some very good and very handsome Kurdish men out there - but most of them married their cousins - or will eventually

In general Kurds are a warm friendly people - do not let one bad experience deter you from making friends within the Kurdish community

But a word of warning - Kurds are a very close knit community - their are NO secrets - if you have a sexual relationship with one Kurds then all his immediate friends will know

Kurdish men are the biggest gossips I have ever come across - far worse than any women - possibly the biggest gossips in the entire world

Kurds are proud people - most Kurdish ean would rather starve than ask for help

Some Kurdish men leave their families in the villages and work in tourist areas of Turkey and because they are Kurds they are often forced to take the lowest paid jobs - often this means working in hotels are restaurants

Many European women go to Turkey to have a laugh and sex with the handsome young waiters - often these women pay for hotel rooms and give the men presents or money - some Kurdish men think all European women are the same and look on European women as prostitutes

Remember 21 March is Kurdish New Year and where-ever there are Kurds there are celebrations - a good time to meet Kurds and make some new friends both male and female

GOOD LUCK

[Piling]

By the way, are you sure he is a YPG ? I mean he just told you that or you saw pictures of him at war ?

[Londoner]

He is just a fraudster.

[Piling]

I imagine what would happen if YPG girlies heard bout his tricks in the name of their party : they would roasted his balls !