Author: Anthea » Thu Oct 13, 2016 9:40 pm
Kurdish men
Kurds are very conservative and they follow traditions
Most men marry their cousins
They do not have what Europeans consider to be boyfriend/girlfriend relationships
Many Kurdish men will never even be alone with their wives before the wedding
As a teacher - personal experience has shown me that a lot of Kurdish men do not want their wives to learn English
Those men who live in Europe would often rather find a wife from their country of origin, than marry a Kurdish girl who has been educated in Europe
Most of the men who go to university and become well educated, still tend to follow tradition and marry their cousins - unless their parents are also well educated
Kurdish women do tend to have more power in the home but they are taken for granted by their husbands
Women have a social life with other women - generally in each other's homes
Men have a social life with each other - generally in coffee shops where women are not welcome
In Europe the coffee shops are often illegal gambling dens

Families visit each other a lot - men will sit in one room talking about what they refer to as 'men's business' - mostly politics and stories from 'back home'
Women will be sitting together chatting and occasionally getting up to refill those tiny glasses of tea
Socially, at the many
MANY weddings and other social events, women and men often sit separately
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