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I have been seeing a guy, for a while now. He is not my boy friend but we spend a lot of time together.
Problem is he refuses to kiss me. Don't get me wrong we have done everything else but kiss.
I'm 22 and he is 24, and he says he doesn't kiss because he did it so much in high school that he got tired of it.
How do people get tired of kissing. I'm desperate, we have had many arguments over the issue and I don't want to just go ahead and kiss him cause he obviously doesn't want to and I don't want to feel like I'm disrespecting him.
I feel we are in the movie pretty women except he's the prostitute and I'm just the girl, since he won't kiss.
What can I do?????
I mean is he just afraid of getting emotionally attached if he kisses me? or could he be BI.
I mean a guy at his age should be more mature about things.
Well please help this is really bothering me.

Thanks.

He need therapy. Suggest that he go to a therapist.

Kubilay - i have completly opposite opinion about it, but i will not tell it here, coz i dont want to be rude for this.... funny girl.

Kulka wrote:Kubilay - i have completly opposite opinion about it, but i will not tell it here, coz i dont want to be rude for this.... funny girl.

Ok but it not rude to tell opposite opinion about it.

right - its not rude in general. but my paricular opinion about this girl is completly not nice. as i unserstood she is doing sex with a person who is even not her boyfriend... - if she doing with one, she may do with a lot of others, coz it means she dont respect herself. i wouldnt kiss her as well, coz how could i know what she had in her mouth before (maybe just few hours before).
if this boy is Kurdish - he also behaves completly not proper way.

I didnt understand she mean that.

no he thinks you are a prostitute so he treats you like one.

afarin!

EncascaDs wrote:I have been seeing a guy, for a while now. He is not my boy friend but we spend a lot of time together.
Problem is he refuses to kiss me. Don't get me wrong we have done everything else but kiss.
I'm 22 and he is 24, and he says he doesn't kiss because he did it so much in high school that he got tired of it.
How do people get tired of kissing. I'm desperate, we have had many arguments over the issue and I don't want to just go ahead and kiss him cause he obviously doesn't want to and I don't want to feel like I'm disrespecting him.
I feel we are in the movie pretty women except he's the prostitute and I'm just the girl, since he won't kiss.
What can I do?????
I mean is he just afraid of getting emotionally attached if he kisses me? or could he be BI.
I mean a guy at his age should be more mature about things.
Well please help this is really bothering me.

Thanks.

Ok, everyones being nice to you, so i HAVE to be straight... He won't kiss you because he doesnt know where your mouth has been!!! Ewwwww,,, How can you do "everything but kiss" a guy that your not even in a relationship with? Your gross.. You FULLY nasty!! OMG your a joke!!! Your despearate?? Why would you even say that?? PLEASE just get a life!! Oh and just so u know, He won't get emotionally attatched to you, at all, under ANY circumstances..... Men don't get emotionally attached to s!@ts... They are weel aware that you can't turn a wh!@e into a house wife!! Go get some self respect u waster... Oh, and an appointment in the STD clinic while ur at it!!

Your post makes me think a lot, cause I know how you feel and I think I can understand you.. first, you visited wrong forums.. Here is for kurdish.... They may not understand you, so I hope you don't get hurt from some replies..
I saw 'pretty woman' before, so I know what you tried to say with it.

I know you are not 'prostitude like the heroine in the movie.. if you were, you never be bothered by that problem.. It bothers you a lot because you are not the woman whom some repliers mentioned above,, but you are just young normal girl who wants to be kissed by the man whom you like, even though he is not your boyfriend yet. right?
I've also got suffered from the same problem for long time.
dear encasca, I feel some smpathy for you. I know how impotant kissing from someone you love is at your age. In my opinion, should stop seeing him. If he loves you, be a man, gives you what you want to get your heart,,, or if he doesn't love you, he is just using you. It doesn't make any sense he doesn't kiss you because he got tired of kissing..
If he doesn't care how much you are unhappy because he doesn't kiss you, he absolutely is in no love with you... Do your best to him if you love him to get his heart,, but still he doesn't care about you, then , give up, and move on.. there must be a man who care what you like, what you don't like, gives you love, not 'hurt'.. so next time, you pst , my boyfriend kisses me too much so I can't do anything, what should I do? like this... OK, girl?,,, cheer up.