Relationship with Kurdish man
Posted: Tue Mar 06, 2012 8:35 pmI have been in a relationship with Kurdish man almost 2 years and he is my first love (and last - because i belive that you can love only one person in your life).
I know this is the man who i want to marry and have children. I am too shy to tell him that - because i expect that man is first who start talk about this. And if i start talk about this then maybe i scare him away or something like that. And at the same time i don't feel myself so good because i would like that we have sure plans for the future.
He have told that you are the one with who i would want to grow old with.
His sister, brothers and cousins know about my existence long time ago.
1 week ago he was also tell to his mother that he have serious relationship with one girl long time.
And she was ask lot of questions.
Is she good girl? What she do? Where she from? What is her name? How old she is? Can she cook? How her clothing is? Would she become a muslim in future? If i want that she come visit me, she come or not? Is she ready to learn our language that i could talk to her too?
And now i have questions for girl who are married or in a relationship with Kurdish man and for Kurdish men.
For girls: I ask because i am afraid to meet my boyfriend mother and other family members. In 2,5 months i will go to Kurdistan. And i am afraid because that is so far, i do not nobody there, i do not know language and maybe they don't like me...obviously I'm so nervous then i think too much)
So how was your first time meeting with your boyfriend mother and family members?? How they was treat you? And have you got a good relationship with your boyfriend mother?
For boys: Is it serious relationship if Kurdish boy take foreign girl to meet his mom? Or tell by phone he have serious relationship? Is this mean that if i like to his parents then one day we can get married?
I am sorry..maybe this questions are stupid, But i am so exited and same time so nervous
I know this is the man who i want to marry and have children. I am too shy to tell him that - because i expect that man is first who start talk about this. And if i start talk about this then maybe i scare him away or something like that. And at the same time i don't feel myself so good because i would like that we have sure plans for the future.
He have told that you are the one with who i would want to grow old with.
His sister, brothers and cousins know about my existence long time ago.
1 week ago he was also tell to his mother that he have serious relationship with one girl long time.
And she was ask lot of questions.
Is she good girl? What she do? Where she from? What is her name? How old she is? Can she cook? How her clothing is? Would she become a muslim in future? If i want that she come visit me, she come or not? Is she ready to learn our language that i could talk to her too?
And now i have questions for girl who are married or in a relationship with Kurdish man and for Kurdish men.
For girls: I ask because i am afraid to meet my boyfriend mother and other family members. In 2,5 months i will go to Kurdistan. And i am afraid because that is so far, i do not nobody there, i do not know language and maybe they don't like me...obviously I'm so nervous then i think too much)
So how was your first time meeting with your boyfriend mother and family members?? How they was treat you? And have you got a good relationship with your boyfriend mother?
For boys: Is it serious relationship if Kurdish boy take foreign girl to meet his mom? Or tell by phone he have serious relationship? Is this mean that if i like to his parents then one day we can get married?
I am sorry..maybe this questions are stupid, But i am so exited and same time so nervous