hi! helen frm uk!can sum1 pls giv advice on topic thx
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Mon Jul 12, 2010 2:23 amAuthor: helen26
hi all im recently in relationship with kurdish man 7mths iam now expecting his child i already have daughter to my ex husband whom i left due to severe domestic abuse to our child and myself. he doesnt have passport we live in uk he says he would marry me when have passport but i have never met his family or even spoken to any of them we spoken about the baby and he isnt keen on keeping the pregnancy but is coming round slowely he says he loves me as i do him dearly but cant help feeling there may be an underlying issue here such as wife and kids back home which he denys im so happy to be having his child id love to have a son for him but cant enjoy this special time due to my worries
i just want a healthy baby (son or daughter)and a real happy marrage in the future i knew his status when we met and that he could be deported any time but couldnt help falling in love he says this is only reason why he didnt want child as he wouldnt see the child which i do understand pls advise ( im white scottish) x thank you and peace to all xxx
Re: hi! helen frm uk!can sum1 pls giv advice on topic thx
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Mon Jul 12, 2010 9:44 pmAuthor: Kulka
welcome to our forum.
what can i say... i dont want to be nasty, but... i have to say - before you decide to have a baby with Kurd, you should get a little bit knowledge about our kurdish culture. Coz, you know, my dear - in our culture there is no things like having a baby without marriage... sorry for saying that, but i am honest, i dont want to lie. anyway - i wish you all the best.
Re: hi! helen frm uk!can sum1 pls giv advice on topic thx
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Tue Jul 13, 2010 6:01 pmAuthor: Londoner
Kulka wrote:welcome to our forum.
what can i say... i dont want to be nasty, but... i have to say - before you decide to have a baby with Kurd, you should get a little bit knowledge about our kurdish culture. Coz, you know, my dear - in our culture there is no things like having a baby without marriage... sorry for saying that, but i am honest, i dont want to lie. anyway - i wish you all the best.
Dear Kulka:
This is a problem at home but not abroad. It is not a problem at all in situations like that. Now every one at home used to accept situations like this one.
Re: hi! helen frm uk!can sum1 pls giv advice on topic thx
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Tue Jul 13, 2010 9:01 pmAuthor: Kulka
Kak Londoner - with all my respect for you - i am sure you know what i meant. the word "aluj" is still in use...
Re: hi! helen frm uk!can sum1 pls giv advice on topic thx
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Wed Jul 14, 2010 11:04 amAuthor: Kulka
this is our privat word - kurdish privat word, so let me to leave your question with no answer, please.
Re: hi! helen frm uk!can sum1 pls giv advice on topic thx
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Wed Jul 14, 2010 11:05 pmAuthor: Kubilay
Kulka wrote:this is our privat word - kurdish privat word, so let me to leave your question with no answer, please.
Ok. You not like me but I like you.
Re: hi! helen frm uk!can sum1 pls giv advice on topic thx
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Thu Jul 15, 2010 7:05 pmAuthor: kurdimemin_diako
having baby - no married ?
not accepted in homeland ! but in Europe why not ? it is a common thing there
Re: hi! helen frm uk!can sum1 pls giv advice on topic thx
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Thu Jul 15, 2010 8:43 pmAuthor: Kulka
as i understood this girl is wondering if this kurdish boy will stay with her forever - sorry, but personally - i really dont think so
Re: hi! helen frm uk!can sum1 pls giv advice on topic thx
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Thu Jul 15, 2010 8:46 pmAuthor: Kulka
Kubilay wrote:Kulka wrote:this is our privat word - kurdish privat word, so let me to leave your question with no answer, please.
Ok. You not like me but I like you.
its not the matter of likes and dislikes...
i am kurdish - you turk - and you like me...? WOW! the world is getting better