hi

[dyaoko]

hi dayaoko, nice to meet you. Yeah if we have children after we marry they will be brought up speaking both english and kurdish. It will also help both of us speak each others language better hopefully

yeah nice to have you here, dont hestiate to share your experiences [both good and bad] with us...tell us how it feels to be involved in relationship with a kurdish boy, whats are the advantages and disadvantages compared to relationship with an english boy ?
yeah I strongly recommend you to rise up your possible future children bilingual .
being a bilingual myself I can speak many languages fluently. I beleive ppl who speak two or three languages in very young ages can learn more languages easier than others.

[lina_s]

hi dyaoko..sorry i took so long to answer you


well i cant speak for every english/kurdish man but from what i know from experience and friends/family who are with english guys the main difference is respect. I have never had so much respect from a man in my life and obviously it works both ways....being respected means its easy to respect back I cant think of any disadvantages so far, sometimes its hard with cultural differences, like me not associating with other guys which is something that in english culture is the norm...and theres other differences but i can always see his reasoning behind them....its not like hes just thrown a set of rules at me because thats how he wants our life to be if you know what i mean? Our entire relationship is based on us being happy together....which is something that a lot of english guys (and girls) dont seem to be bothered about....most english folks i know have the attitude....'if im alright......'