What are the advantages/disadvantages of marriage ?

[Anthea]

There was a report out - cannot remember where to find it - young couples in England would have to save until they are 45 years old to buy a home of their own

So some young couples have decided that rather than wait until they are able to afford a home of their own before starting a family - have a family while they are young - and obtain social housing which is half the price of private housing

I am involved in a campaign to get drug dealers out of social housing and clean up the estates

The police will not fit CCTV cameras near drug dealers in order to gain proof of their activities - they expect neighbours to put their own lives at risk by informing on the dealers

[Anthea]

On a hot evening it would be lovely to have a man around

[Feyli_kord]

On a hot evening it would be lovely to have a man around

Why not just buy a slave instead?

[Piling]

Why buying a slave if some men are free ?

[Feyli_kord]

Why buying a slave if some men are free ?

Because we can't guarantee your safety if you get on our nerves and treat us like slaves/servants. If a woman tried treating me like her arrend boy, I'd throw her out with yesterdays garbage. No woman, no matter how pretty, curvaceous, or alluring are worth being bitched to. Women who don't respect their husbands also, have a tendency of being domineering and deceitful. Same goes for males. Some men are either too stupid or to weak to stand up to women, hence you see the image above, they end up in the womans pocket. I know some men whose partners are spoiled rotten by their own weakness and fear.

[Anthea]

Women who don't respect their husbands also, have a tendency of being domineering and deceitful. Same goes for males. Some men are either too stupid or to weak to stand up to women, hence you see the image above, they end up in the womans pocket. I know some men whose partners are spoiled rotten by their own weakness and fear.

I believe that a marriage should be a 50/50 partnership - we should both have equal part in the decision making - no one partner should ever dominate the other

[Piling]

If a woman tried treating me like her arrend boy, I'd throw her out with yesterdays garbage

Marry at first and then you could affirm what you are able to do or not, young man

[Anthea]

I have had male secretaries/assistants in the past and I have treated them in exactly the same way men treat their female secretaries/assistants - though I have NEVER had one sitting on my knee

[talsor]

Why is all this garbage being posted here ?. Seriously Anthea you need to have some respect , because any idiot can post images similar to the one you posted insulting women and then what ? . You are 50 years old women for God's sake , so I do not know whether to laugh at you or feel sorry for you .

We get it you are bitter and hate men due to bad experiences , but that is no reason to disrespect all men . Seek some help

[Anthea]

Why is all this garbage being posted here ?. Seriously Anthea you need to have some respect , because any idiot can post images similar to the one you posted insulting women and then what ? . You are 50 years old women for God's sake , so I do not know whether to laugh at you or feel sorry for you .

We get it you are bitter and hate men due to bad experiences , but that is no reason to disrespect all men . Seek some help

This from a man who recently wrote:

however in modern world the system setup to lead the marriage in one direction when it comes to women :

Sex....children ....cash out .

I have NEVER had a bad experience with a man - nor do I hate them - some of the best chefs in the world are men

[Piling]

some of the best chefs in the world are men

And French.

[Anthea]

some of the best chefs in the world are men

And French.

French chefs create the most amazing sauces

[Feyli_kord]

I believe that a marriage should be a 50/50 partnership - we should both have equal part in the decision making - no one partner should ever dominate the other

That's not what you implied. You have the typical selfish, domineering mentality that is popular amongst western women. You'd definitely not treat, whatever poor middle-aged guy you enslave with "50/50 equality" marriage.

Marry at first and then you could affirm what you are able to do or not, young man

I'll marry in the future, but definitely not a western woman. I hope kurds don't either(according to statistics we stick to our own). Not only are they arrogant foreigners, they're also treacherous and selfish.


Besides that.. french food sucks, it's the best within a mostly shitty culinary continent. In terms of actual food, middle-eastern, Indian and thai have way more to offer than rotten steaks, poorly prepared vegtables, cheeses and sauces that is touted by europeans as the "pinnacle" of culinary achievement. When you have mostly eurocentric chefs who come from western culinary tradition, of course the french will be advertised as the best in the world. They're the best amongs the a culinarily illiterate continent. It's also all about aethsetics and tools and zero actual results.

[Anthea]

Disadvantages of marriage:

Marriages do NOT start out on a 50/50 basis

Even in 2013 men expect a woman would leave their home to move in with the man - leaving behind:

support network of family, friends, doctors, dentists etc
many of their belongings
any pets - would Piling ever leave Piling behind
employment

Would I be expected to leave behind my 9 computers and all my books ranging from the Kama Sutra to Linux

[Feyli_kord]

Disadvantages of marriage:

Marriages do NOT start out on a 50/50 basis

Even in 2013 men expect a woman would leave their home to move in with the man - leaving behind:

support network of family, friends, doctors, dentists etc
many of their belongings
any pets - would Piling ever leave Piling behind
employment

Would I be expected to leave behind my 9 computers and all my books ranging from the Kama Sutra to Linux

If it is your house, obviously not. Your family, depending on their attitude, of course expect you to move out eventually, they might take care of you during bad times however, that goes double for a man, unless he works with his father in buisness, same for women. There is no difference. Not even in conservative middle-eastern households.