are kurdish men faithful?

[SadKurdLover]

That must have been a pretty amazing experience, yes. I have never been at the birth of anyone else's children.

Ok will take on board what you said re someone to talk to, I guess I don't really let my emotions out, no. My overwhelming emotion right now is stupidity for being in this situation and for being in it twice now. I will look into it.

I think Mr Charm thought I had weakened but I have found out more info that is unforgivable so have strengthened my resolve to keep away.

[Feyli_kord]

Why do you people get involved with people who aren't brits/westerners anyway?

[SadKurdLover]

Why do you people get involved with people who aren't brits/westerners anyway?

You people?? hmm ok. Not in the mood for a blaming so I'll refrain from answering you.

[Feyli_kord]

Why do you people get involved with people who aren't brits/westerners anyway?

You people?? hmm ok. Not in the mood for a blaming so I'll refrain from answering you.

It's an earnest question. Especially between the middle-east and the west, there is a alot of bad blood. There is a big cultural gap aswell. It's just weird. Don't take this personally. You can clearly see this didn't work out for you.

[SadKurdLover]

It's not weird especially when the person has been out of their home culture and in Europe for over 10 years and is not remotely conservative in their thinking. You don't expect to be lied to and taken for a ride though. Yes lesson learnt. I don't really know what else to say to you, not in the mood for endless self analysis.

[Feyli_kord]

It's not weird especially when the person has been out of their home culture and in Europe for over 10 years and is not remotely conservative in their thinking. You don't expect to be lied to and taken for a ride though. Yes lesson learnt. I don't really know what else to say to you, not in the mood for endless self analysis.

Believe it or not.. it's something i'd encourage more often. I wish more people had this mindset, especially elites. We'd all be sorted out and well. It would solve alot of problems.

[Anthea]

Why do you people get involved with people who aren't brits/westerners anyway?

It takes 2 to form a relationship

Perhaps you should ask why do KURDISH men get involved with people who aren't Kurds anyway?

Even in this enlightened age it is still normally the man who initiates the relationship

It would appear that this man charmed his way into this girls life using a web of lies and deception - he is a disgrace to himself his family and his culture - I would say religion but he appears to be strongly lacking in both moral and spiritual values

As SadKurdLover is soon to give birth and probably feeling extremely upset and let-down she needs support and encouragement not criticism or analysis - let her relax and enjoy her baby

[SadKurdLover]

Thank you Anthea, I couldn't find the vocabulary to express that myself...maybe it's pregnancy brain or maybe I don't have it in me, but thank you x

[Anthea]

Thank you Anthea, I couldn't find the vocabulary to express that myself...maybe it's pregnancy brain or maybe I don't have it in me, but thank you x

You are probably just too tired to argue anymore - not at all surprising after what you have been going through

Pregnancy - with all the hormonal and emotional changes a woman goes through - is the closest women get to total insanity - men have absolutely no idea if men were the ones to carry the babies mankind would have died out after the first generation

You just RELAX and ENJOY

[Anthea]

@ SadKurdLover

I hope you and the baby are both doing well

I often think about you in all the hot weather we have been having - though I expect it is cooler where you are - at least I hope it is - I would not liked to have been heavily pregnant during this hot summer

Your daughter must be really excited by now - does she realise you are carrying her sister - or does she think you ate far too much chocolate

Good Luck

[SadKurdLover]

We are fine, thank you for asking, just want things to start moving now. It's been not too hot here and I'm still feeling quite spritely surprisingly. I have been nesting like a mad thing too down to washing lampshades and shampooing carpets

My daughter is equal parts excited and apprehensive I think but she is coping well with the changes and the preparations. She knew there was a baby in my tummy a while ago as she came to an antenatal apt and said to the midwife 'mummy's tummy just keeps getting bigger and bigger you know, why is that??' so I thought I better tell her

Thanks, will keep you posted

[Anthea]

We are fine, thank you for asking, just want things to start moving now. It's been not too hot here and I'm still feeling quite spritely surprisingly. I have been nesting like a mad thing too down to washing lampshades and shampooing carpets

My daughter is equal parts excited and apprehensive I think but she is coping well with the changes and the preparations. She knew there was a baby in my tummy a while ago as she came to an antenatal apt and said to the midwife 'mummy's tummy just keeps getting bigger and bigger you know, why is that??' so I thought I better tell her

Thanks, will keep you posted

I am delighted you are alright - all three of you
Thank you for keeping in touch
Have you got a name for the bump yet?
I think it is exciting and I love babies - always far too busy to have many of my own so adopted a few - then I took in homeless youngsters - at one stage I had over 20 homeless youngsters living in my home - great fun - some of them were excellent cooks

I hope that you have got rid of the stress

With your nesting you know baby will come home to a lovely clean place - hope you have a park near you

Looking forward to the photos

Good Luck with everything

[Anthea]

Here in England Kurdish men live almost separate lives from the women - and the women seldom know where their husbands are or what time they will be returning home - they do have ample opportunity to be unfaithful

Are Kurdish women ever unfaithful?

[Anthea]

@ SadKurdLover

I hope that both you and your baby are doing well

I have had broadband problems so was unable to use this or any other site for well over a week

I hope that Mr Charm has not caused you any more problems

Take care of yourself

[Piling]

I suppose it is the new-born :

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